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Girls, are you getting signs your ex wants you back? Then beware. There are some things you need to assess before making the decision to jump back into the fire.

We understand you’re hurting if he broke it off with you in the first place and you wanted to keep the relationship going but consider for a minute why he broke it off. Did the decision to end the relationship catch you totally by surprise? We’re you ready for it?

Relationships end every day and many for the wrong reasons. You have no doubt kept the faith that one day he’ll come knocking on your door and asking you to try again. How will you react? Consider that there are some guys who just want to stay in touch because they can still get what they want from you. Are you playing this game?

In this article, we’ll help you sort out the real signs your ex wants you back from those manufactured through hopeful thoughts. There is a difference.

How To Tell If He Really Wants You Back

In the Magic Of Making Up system, this topic is covered in detail and many will be left shocked at what they find. A light bulb moment generally happens and saves many women from making a huge mistake. Let’s look at some of the signs you should be aware of:

#1. Perhaps the biggest sign your ex wants you back is when he begins trying to communicate with you frequently. You start to notice you’re getting phone calls or text messages and emails more regularly and he seems to want to just keep in touch. This is often a good sign that he wants to test the waters to see if you’re still angry or if you’re willing to talk.

#2. If you notice during conversations with him that he keeps telling you about things he’s doing that are new or different, these could be signs that he’s trying to impress you by improving himself. In his mind, he’d be thinking he wasn’t good enough to make the relationship work last time, so working to find ways to impress you, such as joining a gym or taking self-help classes or aiming at a new promotion at work or trying to earn more money could be ways for him to try and prove to you that he’s a better catch now.

#3. Another way to recognize signs your ex wants you back could be listening carefully to the questions he asks you when you catch up again. If he seems to be very interested in what you’re doing and who you spend your time with, then he still has some interest in you. He’s testing the waters to be sure you don’t have a new guy on the scene.

#4. The biggest possible signs your ex wants you back are unmistakable, yet many women miss them! When he says to you ‘I miss you and I want you back’, this is an absolutely certain sign he really wants to come back. It’s surprising how many men tell their ex-girlfriends this, yet the emotionally worried woman simply doesn’t hear it – or worse, she doesn’t believe it. She thinks it’s a trick or that there’s a catch.

#5. The truth is, if he looks you in the eye and tells you he wants to come back, then don’t quiz him or accuse him or be doubtful about his signs. Smile. Be the happy, confident person he fell in love with and that he enjoys spending time with. After all, it’s the positive sign your ex wants you back that you should be looking for.